WORDS FROM SPIRIT-INSPIRED WRITING 58
Includes replay session from September 2022
IS SEX IMPORTANT?
Now there’s a good clickbait heading that’s got your ears pricked up and your reading mode switched on. I fear you’ll be disappointed though! I’m respectfully talking about whether being a male or female medium makes any difference.
If you’re still with me - I suspect there are subtle differences between the two sexes as mediums. I’ve no concrete evidence to back up my claims but I would suspect that female mediums are the better communicators with the audience generally speaking. Men, on the other hand, might be more ego-driven to produce ‘gold nugget’ evidence, to use stagecraft more and to be more self-aware.
It goes without saying that mediums tend to have a more effeminate way than most normal people, after all, we’re known as sensitives. And of course, there are many gay men that are more attuned to this work than other heterosexual men. Does that translate to gay mediums’ communications with spirit better than heterosexual mediums? Possibly yes, I think.
I’ve witnessed many mediums demonstrate over the years, the bigger majority being men. Not by choice, but men appear to be more in abundance at theatre-level audience gatherings. I enjoyed watching and learning from them all.
When we look at the balance of women to men in our spiritualist churches, the ladies are the bigger majority. Often, men are the minority by quite some number. So perhaps the question should be, what inspires women in the first place to take up an interest in spirit? Are they more in touch with their inner self and emotions than men? Are they more open-minded? Are the number of women that go on to become mediums different to that of men?
I can’t offer hard facts or evidence. I base my points on my observations only. I’m not even sure there could be a definitive answer or conclusion. I suspect however that men’s egos play a role in pursuing mediumship further. How’s that for the basis of a debate?
In the UK for a number of recent years, the six men mediums with the highest profiles were Derek Acorah, Tony Stockwell, Colin Fry, Paul Jacobs, Colin Bates and Glyn Edwards. The top six lady mediums were TJ Higgs, Sally Morgan, Mavis Pitilla, Eileen Davies, Minister Val Williams and Minister Simone Key. I could go on with both men and women and I suspect it would stay relatively even in numbers.
When it comes to the subject of teaching, I would prefer to be taught by a lady. They tend to be more easy on me - I’m a difficult student! Of course, I would take learning seriously with whoever the teacher was and their sex makes no difference when choosing, only their abilities.
What do you think? Who’s better? Before you answer, what are you basing your assumptions on? If this were a real debate, would it turn into a ‘favourites’ battle, and if so would that void the argument? Does this subject poke ‘a hornet’s nest?
* REPLAY * WORDS FROM SPIRIT-INSPIRED WRITING
originally written Saturday 3rd September 2022 at 01:19 am
Published to MORE WFSIW28th October 2022
Let us talk to you about the healing process, since you’ve been sat healing again this evening. First we must remind you that each of you on the earth side of life have the body that is your vehicle for your life there. Think of it like your car. You also have a spirit. This contains the essence of who you are.
Though this next part is not entirely accurate of an analogy, it serves to demonstrate my point. Your spirit rides, like a passenger, in your car, your body. But as you know, vehicles break down, stop working, develop faults and show signs of wear and tear the longer you own it.
The same is true of your body. The difference being, you can’t swap your body as you can so easily with a car. But the Divine forces overcome that by making your body so that it renews itself, with new cells, new skin, and healthy new tissue by the day.
There is nothing of the body you were born with left. Your body has renewed itself many times since you’ve lived on earth. But as part of the cycle of life, over time, the renewing process slows down and fewer cells are renewed than are needed. This is what you know as the aging process.
Of course, this is only limited to your outer body - your vehicle. Also taking a toll on your vehicle every day are external elements you have less control over. The air that you breathe, the quality of the water you drink, the foods you digest and of course the wear and tear on your body of living day by day.
It is quite natural that these elements are absorbed at varying rates from one person to another. Add to the mix that some of your body’s chromosomes were inherited from your parents too. You can now appreciate that things go wrong within the body.
Your vehicle starts to fail and you adjust to these deficiencies as they happen. Your eyesight deteriorates, for example. Your hearing loses its sharpness. Your hair changes colour over time. So many things are changing every day. Most are so subtle that you don’t notice them. But you adjust accordingly. Like your cars, your body’s performance changes with time.
Your body and all the components have their own energy forces. After all, your body is made up of energy. Look up how much of your body is made up of water alone.
[ I did - it’s about 60%]
If your body is, for example, made up of 90% water, then you’d be doing well to intake more water than you do as a way of replenishing the body’s loss. Parts that break down because of external forces that introduce diseases are more difficult to repair without medical intervention and as you know in the case of Jane’s RA . . .
. . . the cures are limited. When you call upon us in this dimension to get involved with the healing, primarily all we can focus on is the spirit of the body, because it is in our dimension.
The body requires specialists even over here, to solve or help cure the issues. But even if we gathered 20 or more experts over here to work on an issue you’re having with your body over there, there are many other dynamics that must also be in alignment.
The soul’s purpose may not want the intervention. Neither might the spirit. There are many reasons far and beyond your limited consciousness that may interfere with the healing.
So the only advice we can give you is to be patient when you request healing. We always respond and do what is within our capabilities to do. Just because you experience no external evidence of the healing at work, doesn’t mean there was none. There always is. But I will leave you with a reminder of our analogy we’ve used. A doctor can repair the passenger, as we can heal or help heal the spirit. But a doctor cannot repair a car. It requires specialist mechanics. And the same is true of your body.
Specialists are required either on earth, or those with the skills on this side. I really do hope you’ve found the words of comfort and offer some insightful education for you. Your partner is receiving all the healing we can give with all the circumstances being considered.
Perhaps some time we’ll discuss with you how much higher your spirits are in intelligence and understanding than you are with your limited consciousness.
Sleep well my friend.
written on Saturday 1st April 2023 - 210 days later
The above graphic represents a lower mark than I originally gave this piece of writing. in September of last year. My reasons for doing so is because I believe my work has evolved since then and my standards of connection appear to be much higher nowadays.
This sample of inspired writing contains a lot of information that I believe I would have known at that time and there’s nothing standing out to me now that I can state was definitely new.
The inspired writing progress, which I’ve been consistently doing now for over 12 months is something that has evidence of evolving and developing with noticeably stronger connections to the spirit world in later work. So when I down-mark previous writings such as this one, I do so in recognition of how far my spirit-inspired writing has advanced since.
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